Shake my hand. There you take my residue. It’s unavoidable to not exchange energy by something as simple as eye contact. It says “I see you”. It validates a person. Likewise, when we don’t look at a person or whatever cultural exchange of energy, we “offend” or “deny” the exchange. But, is that so wrong? I must say I do not like to be hugged by just anyone. I’ve felt my energy being sucked out of me by certain feeders who lives only to make themselves more energetic than everyone else. This is power lust essentially and lack of self. My power is in me and nothing more or less. But together we make a vibrating, extended web of energy that if not met with wisdom can harm or hinder someone. Not just intentionally feeding on the energy in the room, but having a bad day and dumping on your coworker, or spouse. Making promises you don’t keep, entering someones space after you have yet calmed down from an intense phone call, or manifesting an action with out thought or conviction cause a negative ripple of residue scattering down until it’s burnt out or builds up. Who knows which. That’s why it’s important we all take responsibility for our personal space, our thoughts and intentions, and how we look, touch, and think about other people. Yes, maybe you wanted to buy your boss a coffee, but was it just to hope she’d burn her lip?! Deep inside we need to ask ourselves “why am i doing this?” and also “why am i with these people”. Do you want to be the one accepting the coffee?! Not me. There are ways to protect yourself from these negative daggers through mental shields and simple energy blocks but when you do that you may miss some goodness too. So discretion advised!
Family is irreplaceable but that doesn’t mean you have to spend everyday with them or week or month. In today’s culture, we do not foster a familial setting. We have severe individuality for the sake of freedom, which isn’t bad but we’ve lost the know how to honor culture, energy exchange, and the true meaning of the person from the inside as a being among other selves. Rather we see them as a worker, or “It’s moms birthday I’ll give her a call”. The residue of tradition lies in us all as we crave love from our family, friends, and others, whether we want to admit it or not. This spherical web is more spread out from one “point” to another. But since there is no such thing as a point, we must admit that this sphere is in fact pulling within itself because we yearn for the other “point”.
I’ve never agreed with the theory of relativity and that’s why. Space and time are not married. We live outside time and are members of spacial bodies. These bodies do pull for other bodies and are pulled by gravity, sure. But when the coming together of these “points” of say a love, the result is one. Theories go one from here as to what happens to matter. I like to think that all these spread out “points” will be one in an unwebbed, mass of vibrating, energy of whatever residue is combined.
Because of this, rather becoming one, imploding into a worm hole, or exploding into beyond, we need to try and watch the residue! Check intention, take responsibility, create the whole self and not take from it.
I just did a cleansing ritual for this Harvest moon, and I realized how much residue of others I have been dragging around and pulling towards me while other of that nature gravitated and those wary enough repelled. It wasn’t horrible residue. Just a bit of sadness and a splash of insecurity. And though I’m sure my journey will be littered with negative residue, this only balances the ying and yang. We can not have positive with out a negative, folks! But I don’t advise robbing a bank so a cop can gain glory through an arrest and declare yourself “well balanced”! Uhm, no feel the vibrations of each action and you’ll see the human crisis of not addressing residue, and acting irrationally to rob a bank which creates a need for a residue cleaner. Negative energy can be experienced in healthy life trials that do not have to send you to jail! Though, some people may need this. I would assume or it wouldn’t be happening.
So until we take responsibility for the residual affects we have in our thoughts, intentions, and actions. We will continue to paw at the ball of yarn mewing for mothers milk. Maybe we should call our moms!